I have never had a chalazion but I recently helped someone with a skin tag on their eye that was causing a lot of pain and discomfort and related to a lot of the symptoms that a chalazion would have. I recommended Castor Oil and within a few days it was already shrinking and there was no more pain for the person . Maybe Castor Oil could help ?
Oh, what peace we often forfeit, Oh, what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry, everything to God in prayer!